TweetSharePinShare0 SharesownWith numbers on the rise, parentification is coming to light in the conversation of family dynamics. This role reversal negatively impacts children’s development and leads to maladaptive adulthood. The two types of parentification have different impacts, but neither seem to yield much positivity. It becomes important that parents and children remain in their appropriate roles for proper developmental progression. About Parentification is a term used to describe the process where “children are assigned the role of an adult, taking on both emotional and functional responsibilities that typically are performed by the parent”. The term includes several subtypes. Instrumental parentification occurs when parents assign the child functional duties, such as grocery shopping and paying bills. With more detrimental outcomes, emotional parentification describes when the child is expected to provide the emotional and psychological needs of a parent (Engelhardt 2012). Consequences of Parentifying a Child Often, when a child goes through parentification, they continue to take on more and more responsibility for the parent to receive praise or attention. This can escalate to the child disregarding their own needs and tasks for the parents (Engelhardt 2012). Both research and common discussions of parentification, often find that a consequence of this process are attachment issues. Insecure attachment has cascading effects on behavior, emotional regulation, and more that can continue into problem behaviors in adulthood. Specifically, there appears to be a link between maternal behaviors and parentification. Mothers who experienced parentification during their childhood tend to be less warm towards their children and often push parentification on them. This results in externalizing behavior problems in children that are found to follow them into adulthood and even, then, their own families (Nutall et. al, 2012). This research further reinforces the need to look at the big picture of family dynamics because one detrimental relationship can have a snowball effect. Other issues that may arise as a result of parentification include: Extreme anxiety over abandonment and loss Difficulty handling rejection and disappointment Depression Feelings of hopelessness Mental health issues Trauma/PTSD TweetSharePinShare0 Shares
